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Should I try and pipe or run far away?
should I just kill myself or can she go after my family for child support?
My bf immediately looked unhappy. When I got in the car there was sort of a tense silence and I asked him what was wrong, and he said he didn't like that I was riding on some guy's motorcycle. He didn't go into detail about why that was a problem. Its not as if I got on a stranger's motorcycle - its one of my coworkers and he's a nice guy so I knew he wouldn't do any crazy bike stunts while giving me a ride.
My bf has been distant since then and asked me not to get on that guy's motorcycle again. I thought it was a safety thing, but the more we talk the less it seems like that was the issue in his mind.
So we started texting a lot for a week and she asked really personal questions then drops on me that she is dating that other guy like wtf...
She asked me why I stopped kayaking many years ago, told me that she might go to the gym when I said that I am going.
I could have been talking to another chick which is single, I am so pissed man...
What the fuck do I even reply so it doesn't come off as if I was hitting on her?
I have to add that she is blonde blue eyes and is dating an actual short gypsy like wtf.
Women are horrible...
Is this any good?
How honest should I be about suicidal thoughts?
Is 1x per day average, above or below average for a long term relationship? She says she has thrush and has a headache, we had sex this morning and almost this afternoon but then she suddenly stopped making out with me when our clothes were off and it was awkward af. I didn't know what to say/do so I just got dressed again and left the bed. I like sex a lot and she used to. What frequency is too low that I should talk to her about it/break up? I hear some couples have sex only once a week or even less, and presumably the guy tolerates that. So I don't want to sound spoiled, I just don't really know what's normal. When we do have sex it's great btw
Are cities, and for Georgia folk Savannah specifically, really all that dangerous to be in? A guy I know from work goes to River Street by himself all the time, and he's never had trouble.
I don't get why they demand MORE of my time and resource while giving up less and at the same time give humongously retarded pretexts as to why
EG
>I am not that type of girl, if you want just sex then find someone else
(said by a club slut)
>This is too pervert, I just want to talk normally
>I feel uncomfortable like this
>Do you think we know each other well to be doing this?
These things were all said after I repeatedly blew my load in their fanny and mouth as well, so it's not some beginning of the relationship ''let's take it slow'' talk. They backpedal and dangle their pussy like a carrot in front of me for some reason because sex isn't off the table apparently, as long as I comply.
Why do women do this shit? How do I stop them from doing this? I normally just ghost them when they send me an entire dictionary worth of drama but some are hot and I want to keep banging them.
No friends, no family, no children, no girlfriend, no talents. Late 30s, I have no motivation to do anything, everyday is just agony. Tried therapy, drugs, working out, self improvement, tried learning to play music, how to paint, even tried to learn to fly a plane. Nothing brings joy. Every moment is just exhausting and it always has been. I can't do this for 40 more years. I don't know what else to do. If I died tomorrow no one would care. I am just tired.
What do I do? Just let go of all hope and watch the world burn? I am just at a loss as nothing brings me joy.
Been trying to grow hair out. What is your first impressions of me when u see me? Is there something different i should do with my look? Struggling to date, is it cuz of my looks . be straight ip
The more I think about it the more it bothers me though. What should I do? Am I being paranoid? Her and I have not been dating that long and I don’t want to control wha she can or can’t do.
Discuss following topics related to picking up women and/or establishing and maintaining a gf (gfs ranging from trad to sluts)
Ask questions and share experiences (what works, what hasn’t worked)
Rules of thumb if you are going to be successful (simple)
>be fit
>be confident
>work on social skills
Places to meet (depending on your standards)
>bar
>church
>college
>local events
>any public place (supermarket, coffee shop, etc)
>literally anywhere you are except for your moms house
Maintain gf
>be loyal
>don’t cheat
>don’t date whores/sluts
>establish trust with gf is #1
to cold approach or not to cold approach?
Yes, you should cold approach retard
>helps develop social skulls
>if you’re not a creep then it will just be a normal conversation that you had with someone
>cold approach did nothing wrong
t. 31 M happily married with kid on way. Been with many girls before trad wife
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wtf am i supposed to do?
How do I come across?
However, Andrew Tate said he won't reveal his secrets until I buy his $50 membership and Fresh and Fit also paywall all their advice.
I'm so pumped to stop being an incel and poorfag , but I don't want to spend cash on advice that might not work.
I feel so lost. Is there any youtuber who gives out life advice for free?
I’ve been on 5 dates for the past week and it always some upscale restaurant like legal seafood or pappadeaux.
I usually get a kiss at the end but it never leads to anything more. I’m down close to a grand for doing this.
Maybe 5 1080p cameras, with audio
>meet man actually like, take long time to have sex and “play hard to get”
Why do women do this?
>feeling lonely today
>used to have tons of frens in highschool
>had 2 best frens for years
>shared many memories together
>first joint
>first time getting drunk
>play vidya together for weekends at a time
>meet gf
>her family manipulated me into never being allowed to have any frens of any kind
>8 years later
>24 years old now
>basically at home all day
>tried reconnecting with frens after I realised that they weren't allowed to do that to me
>they don't want to talk to me anymore
>give up on even trying to make new frens, because I've evolved into some weirdo with zero social skills
>as the years go by, I get over it
>used to my new life now
>be today
>some random memory pops up in my head out of nowhere
>we were sharing a joint, having a good time
>realisation.gif
>I haven't been that happy in years
>I miss my frens anons, and I didn't know who to tell
>inb4 change dorm
I can't, I didn't get a place in a public dorm and all the private ones are way more expensive.
>I'm 24, unemployed stem grad on neetbux + rent assistance
>live with 84 yr old great grandmother, mother and younger sister
>for years my grandmother has had incidents where her personality will go from happy caring and understanding to a completely unhinged hateful schizo
two specific incidents this year:
>has an envelope she keeps money in for when she eventually goes to the bank
>used to have me help her count the money before the incident so i would write the amounts on the envelope because this was mostly cash totaling above $2k
>we count one day, get slightly different amounts (both more than what I had written on the envelope last time) before she even adds the rent money my mother gave her
>starts asking why we counted different amounts and why i have amounts written on the envelope
>try to explain that the amounts were there because she would take money out of the envelope for shit like paying me back for ordering her food or taking money out for when we would go to her appointments and she wanted to take a cab
>cuts me off, says she doesn't remember taking money out of the envelope EVER, says she can't trust me + accuses me of stealing half the rent money because some bills were missing when she asked me to go get it for her (i didn't know the money even existed until she asked me to go get it)
>i was also in the process of getting my neetbux and rent assistance approved (so I could PAY RENT while I look for a job) so me stealing wouldn't make sense especially when i was writing down the amounts
>get into screaming match, starts calling me evil and says i talk to her like a dog, etc (says this constantly btw)
>leave house to cool down, send her a text explaining why me stealing doesn't make sense and she texts back to drop it because she knows what she does with her money
>never get an apology for calling me a thief and this never gets resolved
1/?
>ask her out
>she isn't
How do I cope with the massive hit to my ego? It's been keeping me up at night
I just recently went to the doctors for chronic fatigue (I'm tired 24/7 after sleeping 10-12 hours a night). My doctor said its cause is more than likely from sleep apnea (I'm a jawlet, looking into surgery to correct it) but I asked him to order a testosterone blood work just so I could rule out low T.
> 319 (ng/dL) was my result
This seems extremely low for my age, let alone that I'm skinny and pretty active when I'm not asleep. My doctor agreed with me but was a little hesitant since it's not officially below 300, which is considered low T in America. This is definitely considered really low for my age right? I should be at 800-1000 right now shouldn't I? I'm probably going to have to pay out of pocket for TRT since I'm not officially low T and I want to know if I'm going to be wasting my money on something I might not need.
>three kids, not older than 15 I'd say walking behind us
>they keep saying "gay" but everytime I look behind to see who they're talking to they look away
>don't say anything just kind of scoff
>mother makes joke about kid touching his own dick, how he moght be gay himself
>we laugh a little and walk towards restaurant we were headed
Now I'm 24 years old, 6'3 and have an alright build with kickboxing experience. These kids were about 2/3rd of my height so I didn't really feel threatened or anything but I was just wondering what the fuck the best thing to do is in this situation. Calling them out and getting mad is stupid, as they're just kids. Basically giving them any sort of reaction would just give them what they want. I could try to intimidate them but they know I'm not going to beat up 14 y/olds and if I did I'd probably get fucked by the law anyways. I don't know, I think just laughing at them and walking away was the way to go but it still irks me a little.
What would you do, /adv/?
She is super apologetic and like she didn't mean to hurt me or anything, and cut it off to not lead me on anymore. Which I appreciate intellectually, a month isn't even really that long right? I'm being dramatic I guess - tho I should say we'd been good friends for like 5/6 months prior to dating.
She's 3 1/2 years older than me, I'm 24 and she 27. Oh also she's my coworker. I feel so unimaginably terrible right now, she made me feel like I never had before. Now I just want to dive off a ledge or recede into a hole forever. I've been calling out from work and thankfully have 2 days off scheduled next. I'm just heartbroken.
>too smart to enjoy or fit in with average people
What do 110-129iq people generally do with their lives?
>police don’t respond to crime/mass shootings, if they do they shoot an innocent man
>things are becoming drastically more expensive and stuff like food is becoming smaller for a larger price
>war in Ukraine with both sides being evil, shelling of nuclear power plants, people talking about tactical nukes being used
>China invading Taiwan, Biden said he would assist which would definitely lead to nuclear war, if that doesn’t happen would will be cut off from many GPUs
>the justice system as usual being used as a political weapon against people the government doesn’t like, this time way more often and more prevalent
>social media is collecting personal data like crazy
>hundreds of CEOs have retired, quit, or sold a shit ton of their stock
>people are more narcissistic elitist than they’ve ever been
>wildfires worldwide destroying ecosystems
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>”the world isn’t ending and won’t even anytime soon”
Give me a good explanation how the world isn’t ending
>inb4 “the world has always been like this”
Nah, it hasn’t, things have definitely gotten worse the past 2 years
How would I go about doing this?
Anyway, what can be done to feel more attractive and sexy as a man? I never want to talk to women because I honestly feel hideous.
I cant afford therapy or counciling and the only thing that helps me with it is weed and muay thai. Im worried somethings gonna set me off and I'll ruin my life over something stupid is there anyway I can combat this?
Something where the protagonist doesn’t get a happy ending. They don’t find love, they don’t live happy ever after. Something that reflects real life that you never get what you want and then you die alone.
I know there are lots of things to work on individually: picking better condoms, practicing with them, dropping porn/unhealthy masturbation, maybe taking viagra/cialis to get some success for confidence.
Any important ideas I missed?
Are there any success stories from people in similar situations here, and how did you fix it?
>nofap one year
>read how you will start attracting females and so on
>after I was nofap I started working out with it
>lots of people say I have abs and good athletic physic cause of calisthenics
>become good with crush that friendzoned me
>she asks me what make ups is she supposed to wear and comes with ones that I said she should wear, asks me why am I not in school everyday when I'm sick, hangs out with me just the two of us
>this goes around for 5 or 6 months
>ffw to yesterday, ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend, she says this makes her uncomfortable and doesn't know what to think cause I'm her bestest friend and she never gave cues that she wants to be my gf
>bestestfriend?.mov
>start feeling bad cause I also saw her as a good friend but never thought she sees me as her best friend. Now stuck inbetween if I should end it cause I'll never got a gf out of her and cause I was told that she manipulates me or staying and being her best friend making her happy
>start thinking if I should download tinder and just become a husk of a person fucking bitches
>start thinking if nofap is worth it
>everyone in group and unhealthy people get tons of female attraction and are loved yet I don't get loved at all by opposite gender
>kissless virgin
>mfw
Consciousness is an illusion and intelligence is a curse.
Life only exists to experience, and observe.
Rationality and Emotion cannot typically exist alongside one another comfortably.
Life is pain, and suffering, and a constant road to finding a happiness that forever will be fleeting. Eventually one finds a void comforting amidst the noise.
>met girl at new workplace (both 28), very smart, ok-looking, seemed traditional and energic
>we hit it off with great night talks, huge ammount of common ground (authors, hobbies, afinities); like to spend time in very similar ways, cook, check out museums, read poetry, etc.
>almost from the start she started "coffessing" as if she felt the urge to do so. I thus found out she has a (really) big past, with an abusive, broken relationship; was married and left home, she was still clinged at the start mentally and this lead so many frictions between us.
>she also battles with alchohol, depression, broken family, some health issues (may not bear kids probably) as well as some other tough shit
>after 4 months of dating and battling her demons I managed to "clean" part of her by making her confess all this stuff. Thus came the biggest wave of reveals: Sexual deviancy, medical drugs, etc
>in all this time she effectively broke out of her past and started to cling to me as I am her savior. (maybe I enjoyed that?)
On the good side, she is always available, open, communicative; and while very possesive and "clingy" she is dedicated and (I think) honest. For some of the bad stuff she went through I somehow can't emotionally blame her -- so this leads me to "eat up" a lot more than I ever though I could/would for someone.
Bottom line: I don't know if what I feel is love or total soul obliteration. Help me process this or least understand if I crossed too many red flags and that's how this feels.
Its a sad fact that I need these blood sucking companies to get by. Literally one company out of the bunch has straight up said their goal is to increase company profits.
I got an iPhone and an old android phone. On my iPhone it shows that I have only the recent chat which has at most 3 pictures. On the other hand, I haven't used my android phone but I logged in on it and it shows only 3 pictures as well, but next to the name it says 143 pictures and 40 videos. Can I get those back somewhow?
go away and never come back
![Two-Buttons[1]](https://i.4cdn.org/adv/1660243963676071s.jpg)
>manager handed out some product and we all got canned
>be trying to put out applications
>inevitably come to the former employment section
>"Reason For Leaving"
>mfw
do I lie and say I was laid off or be honest and say I was terminated? my boss even said he'd still hook it up with a referral and to put his personal number down on any applications I do
For the past few months I've been engaging in sexual immorality, I masturbate to fucked up shit, even multiple times a day. After deleting all my fap folders I've started to collect shit to fap again because I'm slowly stopping to give a fuck. I know I'm sinning, but how should I stop when everything sucks? Does God want me to live in a chastity cage? Because I can't get a wife to satisfy my sexual urges which means I'm destined to celibacy. If I can't even masturbate, how the fuck should I live? And I can't kill myself either because that would throw me into hell too lol.
Any Christian here has any advice?
I want to get her aroused.
>from the time we were 4 until we were 12 we were always together
>first kiss
>first girl to see my erect dick when I was 8
>First clitoris I ever saw
>She moved away when we were 12 and then she ghosted me.
>FFW a few days ago
>I'm drunk AF in a bar
>I see her with some dude.
>I seet right next to her with my mouth that smell like shit and whiskey.
>"Hey anonetta, long time no see, remember when we were 8yo and I showed you my erect penis and you asked why it was hard an you held it while I peed? Well it's bigger now, and so is your chest! Should we show eachothers our parts again?"
>"Holly shit Anon, is that you? Please fuck off, I have a husband and children now!"
>Said husband grab me and throw me outside telling me not to ever approach his wife again or he'll call the police.
>I try to get back in but I can't because the bounce say I'm too drunk and I'm currently peeing pants without noticing.
WTF did I do wrong? why she got to treat me like that, we used to be best friend. Everything I said was true.
I like the sex i have but i dont cum most of the time, and after a while, i just lose my boner without even cumming
Is this normal or should i be worried?
And no, i don't watch porn. The only thing i can think of is that the girl im currently having sex with is just a random pretty hot girl, i dont feel anything for her. I used to have a gf whom i loved and i would come rather fast.
Weird
>finally get qt gf at age 29
>cant cum during sex at all
>cant even cum from jacking off in front of her
>but have no problem cumming to porn by myself
>cutting porn from my life for a week and still cant finish with her even though she does a good job and i want to
am i fucked?
My contract is six more months. I have to ride it out to the end because I am bound by contract. Also because a recommendation letter from this company = set for life.
How do I pass the time? Not just pretending to look busy at my desk, that too, but how do I make the next six months manageable? Are there any tricks for accelerating the perception of time?
She agreed but yesterday she started to make me some problems. I told her that she cannot sleep in my house, as I don’t want to do nothing at my parents’ bed. It’s just a matter of education and respect. She then said that then she would not come, as she was feeling like a prostitute that, after sex, had to come back alone to her house. I told her that I could drive her back home and she refused it.
Is she wrong? Am I wrong? What should you do anons? I cannot believe that she was thinking about having sex and sleeping at my parents’ bed… she’s latina so I don’t know if their education is different in those countries.
I had my last gf 8 years ago and i'm too fucking picky about choosing a woman for love. With picky, i don't just mean the body of the women, i also check for the social interest and such a things. If a person too away from me "culturally" i can not stop but mock them with jokingly.
And the point is, i'm not good enough to be a "picky" guy. I'm not handsome, not smart, not long or rich. I don't have any talent or ability.
I still want to be picky because I don't like spending time with mentally idle people, but i don't know. Maybe I shouldn't be that selective because is your gf must be your equal? idk.
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> Would you like visit xyz with me?
> Yeah
Do I Just send her the same message again after five days?
>it’s old, but he said it runs just may need a new battery soon
>said to give him a call if I have issues
>first time tried to cut the grass, didn’t start
>called him, came over and charged it, got it running
>few weeks later, not working again
>bought new battery
>still not working
I know he said I could and that it’s fair to expect something for that much money to work at least semi-consistently, but why do I feel like a Karen? I feel like it’s my fault for buying an old machine and not having the skills to fix a used machine. Would you pester him until it worked consistently or demand your money back, etc?
>Does LSD
>Psychotic break
>Given 90 pills of Librium in psych hospital
>Leaves psych hospital
>Takes all of them
>Blacks out for a month
>Wakes up in some strange group home
>Baker act myself again because i'm freaking out
>Injected with Invega
>IQ goes from 100 to 30
>Becomes humanoid retard
>2 years go back
>IQ comes back from med change
>Me sitting in bed right now at parent's house
Wtf just happened bros
I Lost my 20s to disease, finally got a passing full physical. I felt like on heroin for 3 days but now I wanna continue my life as if nothing happened.
I guess college dorms are the best way to pop back in?
I also have an identity issue as there are missing pictures of me in the timeframe I was AFK from real life.
Afraid to hurt my career staying too long as a senior staff.
>have trouble waking on time
>set alarm 2 hours prior to original alarm
>set loud "nuke siren earape" as sound
>get full 8+ hours of sleep
>dream about someone talking to you
>they talk for a while
>slowly wake up
>person talking transforms into alarm at full volume.
>freak out and stop alarm
>it's over 4 hours past the alarm set
I was late as fuck because of this. What the hell is wrong with me?
Live 5 mins from my mother.
Since I started paying my own way she's become increasingly more needy and unreasonable.
"Anon do this, anon come to that" "anon its your duty to look after me".
Its gotten to the point where I'm considering changing my surname or moving state.
It's like dealing with a kid that has a car and a phone and gets the shits with you if you don't call them back 5 mins later.
I've generally been pretty good to her but this shits getting rediculous.
Advice?
We calmed her down and talked about her emotions, how scary it was. (I think it's fair to be upset and scared when you were almost in a car accident, but there have been times I've seen her get so rattled that I'm afraid she'd be too upset to pay attention and get into a worse accident).
The storm passed and I brought up that she really shouldn't say that word. It was really surprising - in 7 years of dating I've never heard her say anything like that. We take our word choices seriously.She apologized, said this wasn't a proud moment for her, that she was disappointed in herself and that it wouldn't happen again. She said that she felt like her anger was making her into a worse person in the moment and that she didn't like how it felt, and that she felt bad the second it came out of her mouth. She said it felt like "relapsing" into a hateful way of thinking and that she is better than that.
I believe her, but for some reason this still bothers me. Is that unreasonable? Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? Am I being unreasonable by having a hard time letting it go?
It's been two years on probation. I behaved while locked up, I've behaved on probation. So today I asked my officer when my time was up. She has repeatedly corrected me that it's parole, not probation, but I served every fucking day of my sentence, I didn't get an early release, so in no way is it fucking parole, parole implies if I fuck up they send me back to complete my sentence, but it's done. In any event she informed me flatly it doesn't end until 2025. Three more fucking years of this garbage. I'd like to have this shit off my back. I'd like to be able to travel I'd like to be able to get a fucking drink once in a while again. They've already taken four years of my life on a first offense that I should have just gotten probation for to begin with.
Should I go to the effort of getting an attorney to file for Early Termination? I'm not sure if I need to file here or in the other state.
>student at uni
>wanted to get a job and be productive and move out a year ago when I just turned 18
>insomnia and sleep issues hit
>can't sleep for up to 72 hours at times
>head not working correctly at all, information goes in and goes out before being registered
>nausea almost 24/7
>focus on fixing insomnia first because I keep failing exams and am physically weak due to it the entire year
>Basically just go from doc to doc and try out method after method to fix this
>parents are now mad at me for practically being a NEET even tho I want to move out and be productive more myself than they want me to
>victim blame me and claim I'm only faking it
>tell me I should spend my time without sleep working somewhere so at least it won't be wasted because they don't want me to waste it at home
What do I do?
Please recommend me websites that are majority European. I don't care what they're about, as long as you can talk to people on there.
>still have to spend the rest of the month here
>have to sleep on the couch
>have to decide who gets who of our dogs
>wfh so i spend all my goddamn time here
>still have to maintain a place I wont even have in three weeks
>my gf acts so friendly still which somehow makes it way worse
>still calls me her honey just doesnt touch me at all anymore always a few feet away
How does anyone do this shit? I've only been at this a few days and I want to tear my eyes out
>have a place lined up with an old college bro but have to wait
Tried different liquids, the taste stays, tried a replacement coil, tastes the same.
The liquids don't mention what's the temp, but they only produce smoke when i have it on at least 40W
>1) She refuses to get a job despite having an electrical engineering degree from a really good school. When I encourage her to look for a job she says that she can’t find one (a lie) or that she’s too busy with personal projects (in her defence she does contribute to a lot of open-source projects). I make enough to support the two of us but she could easily get a high-paying job which would make us a lot richer.
>2) She is addicted to smoking weed and vaping. The entire house smells like weed and vape fumes.
>3) She is an alcoholic.
>4) She spends a lot of time playing video games or watching anime on her PC.
>5) She is messy. She leaves her clothes all over the place and her room is a disaster.
>6) She is a reckless driver. I worry that one day she'll get into a serious car accident. She also mods her car which means her car insurance is more expensive. I pay for her car insurance.
>7) Her sleep schedule is messed up. She went to sleep at 6 am today.
>8) She did cocaine before.
>9) She's lazy. She doesn't cook very well or do chores around the house.
>10) I wouldn’t call her unhygienic but she doesn’t shower as often as I’d like her to.
She does, however, have positive qualities:
>1) She's really intelligent (when she isn't drunk or high). She's the most intelligent person I know and I was a math major at the same college she went to.
>2) She's fairly attractive in the nerdy doomer e-girl sort of way. I would rate her a 7/10.
>3) I really enjoy talking to her. I could talk to her for hours. She’s highly intelligent allowing me to have deep conversations with her and she shares many of my interests.
>4) She's really fun to hang out with. I consider her my best friend.
>5) The sex is great. She's pretty kinky.
I feel like she still thinks we’re college kids. I used to be a lot like her back in college but I grew up after I graduated. We’re in our mid-20s, she shouldn’t be behaving like this.
What should I do?
>get a much better, well-paying job
>have infinitely more self respect
>practically cure my depression
>get catharsis with the women who poisoned my life for nearly a decade and stop talking to her entirely
>still wonder about her months later
I guess the easy answer is that its hard to forget somebody you've known for so long, but goddamn, I wish she wasn't such a manipulative whore, or else I'd make her the happiest woman in the world. I'm assuming this isn't just a me problem?
>making decent cash
>3 months into job, get access to an internal database tool
>decide to play around with it to learn how to use it
>search up the CEO of the company
>search up myself afterwards
>carry on with my day
5 months pass
>get a call from corporate security that I violated the banks privacy code of conduct
>"WHY WOULD YOU SEARCH UP THE CEO AND THEN YOURSELF???"
>terminated immediately
My intentions were not malicious, but I can't help but feel worthless. Not sure where to go from here. How would I explain this termination in an interview? What should I say? Is it over?
>be me
>an year and a half ago
>impressionable teenager
>have strange feelings about my body, like i don't belong in it
>say this to some people i know
>they lead me to a group of trans people
>think "ok, that's how it is"
>ffw 8 months
>sexually degraded everyday throughout these months, verbally abused as well, all under a hood of "helping me become my true self"
>passing through some economic hiccups, seriously think about prostituting myself so i could get the money to pay
>one member of the group offers to give some help, we meet up and he tries to sexually abuse me
>since then, cut all my ties with the group, they tried to find other ways to contact me, but in the end they just discarded me and moved on to other people
>ffw 7 months, present day
>going to school normally
>feel disgusted with my body every single day, the touch of my """breasts""" in my shirt almost makes me tremble out of fear and hate, i hide so i can cut myself, tried to kill myself sometimes but was too much of a pussy to do it.
>tried going out with a girl, but she's lesbian and that only enlarges my disgust for myself, but can't not feel love for her
>tried to go to therapists some times, but it's the same talk "you should love your body"
>a guy in my classroom becomes trans, even changes his name, everybody is applauding and comemorating for him
>try to think nothing of it and focus on the classes
>group assignment about trans people and i'm in the same group as him
how to cope, anons?
I don't want any sort of tip on how to "improve" my life or anything like that, just need an idea on how to cope at least for this assignment.
>inb4 "kys tranny"
i will.
(sorry for bad grammar, not a native speaker)
I have no problems with charisma/appearance, I just don't know where to start and how to identify someone who could be a good gf (and wife if everything works right). Any ideas?
voice actually matter more than height
>She's perfect, we have everything in common
>Text for 2 days
>She stops replying
How many times should I rinse and repeat before jumping off a bridge?
We also use lube so I'm not sure if that's not helping.
I want to ace the exam, so I have to flashcard and study everything.
However, I have insomnia and feel tired all day.
What to do now? I am taking a break from studying 50% of the first chapter.
Any advice or resources would be helpful
but I don't know any method without getting hurt.
can you help me? please
I'm currently studying UX/UI design
Now, as an adult, I'm the proud new owner of a brand new mountain bike. And I'm experiencing the same problems. Lose balance, difficulty getting my feet on the pedals, feeling like I'm gonna fall, getting stressed out easily, ect. And I'm making myself look like a retard in front of the neighborhood children who know how to ride a bike with ease and their watching a 23 year old struggle like some dumb fuck. Realistically, how long will this take me to learn? People keep saying once you learn you never forget and if you can drive a car, a bike should be no problem. I can drive a car but I can't ride a fucking bike and I feel stupid.
>known my bfs Xbox friend for a few years. He lives far and is in the military so it’s hard to see him
>seen him in person a few times, once at his house
>been talking about meeting up again
>we play overwatch together
>he tells me he broke up with his gf of a few years, but everything is cool between them
>automatically get happy on the inside. Can’t feels bad
>says good night, then I go to watch porn on Twitter
>goes straight to #femboy #cumshot tags
>find a video of a cute Asian boy cunning in a very familiar room
>gets overwhelmed and turned on by my Xbox friend, but can’t cum because I can’t stop laughing.
>my boyfriend wakes up and I show him what I found.. he tells me he’s into it and judging by his retweets he is closeted (but I think he’s always been curious he totally has flirted with my bf)
Did he forget to take his Twitter off of his contacts? Should I tell him or just keep rubbing my Pussy to it?
This is the first time I've ever actually had feelings strong enough where I've wanted to act on them, but I don't have anyone I can turn to for real advice on the matter that isn't either just as if not more clueless than me, or isn't a trainwreck. Or that won't laugh at me for asking to begin with. I'm also worried because I don't have a lot of good friends and if asking her out makes her not want to be around me, that would really shrink my already small circle. The thought of even trying to ask her out gives me a lot of anxiety.
I think her parents are pretty strict so I'm not sure if I'll be able to get her alone to ask. Should I do it through text or call or something? Should I not do it at all to preserve the friendship?
What do you do for fun?
I'm getting depressed because she is a great girl otherwise. Literally, 1 other flaw and I would have broken up with her, but I can't justify breaking up this great relationship because she doesn't like walking through the woods.
What do I do, and how do I cope with this issue?
