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What the hell is wrong with me and what can I do about it besides seeing a doctor?
I'm sure I remember most of the details, but not all of it. Do you think I should just 'wing it' and show up at the time I think the email said and report to the person who I think I'm supposed to see? Or should I email the guy and sheepishly ask him to resend the email, making myself look like an idiot and have them second guess employing a dumb cunt who deletes important emails?
Also I think I need the email as proof of income to show to real estate agents because I need to relocate for this job.
And is it possible to keep my humor without being noisy and cringy? All I really do are puns, dadjokes, ironic comments, and laugh until I wheeze in tears.
I just wanna be calm and comfy.
>have 1st date
>friends right, a lot of natural chemistry and she's cool/ my type
>we have a pretty good time
>not feeling it too much but i like her so far
>she asks for a 2nd date on the spot and I agree
>gonna cook me some food then we see a show
Don't wanna lead her on but she's a bit fat for me. I prefer athletic gals and she's a bit heavy. I keep my self in good shape so I want someone who's also in good shape. But besides that she's a catch.
Do I break it off? Ride it out to see if attraction builds ?
Has anyone else gone back into NEETdom to this?
My father is mentally ill and he texts me his demented thoughts. He’s paranoid, angry and he sends me unwanted porn sometimes. This is extremely uncomfortable for me, It just gets worse and worse.
I don’t live with him anymore we rarely see each other. Should I block his number? I understand mentally ill need help and cutting him off isn’t right for him either.
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FAQ:
>What do girls/guys think about <any trait, such as looks, physical or personality traits, virginity, penis traits, or lack of dating experience>?
>Do <most/any> <girls/guys> like <an insecurity over the above>?
There is no one answer, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of <people/rejection>.
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it bit by bit. There is no "magic moment" (or activity) that will instantly change you.
>I like someone. What do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. "Signs" of attraction are useless.
>Where do I meet people for <dating/friendship>?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Just leave your comfort zone.
>Someone did <something insignificant>. What does it mean?
Nothing. You're overthinking it.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Coffee is the preferred first date, but any of the following may work: lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, froyo, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, gallery, park, <activity in your city>.
>I'm a virgin and insecure! Am I too old?
No.
>Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
You'll feel just as empty inside afterwards.
>Where do I find virgins of the opposite sex?
Fuck off.
>I'm insecure because of my <small/avg/big/cut/uncut/phimotic> penis
>Do women prefer penises of certain qualities?
>How do I <use/compensate for> my <as above> penis?
><any question/claim about penises>
Fuck off
>Why can't <women/men> just give a straightforward rejection?!
>Why do all <women/men> do <example of undesirable conduct>?!
Fuck off
><dating platform> is only for hookups, don't go there for real people!
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Make it yourself! Try these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2
i can obviously program in several languages, but my resume is a bunch of tiny games and the last gig i tried to make money off of by programming online paid shit and inconsistently.
is it that crazy an idea to pull through with this?
i want the experience and to make new friends with other weird people, but i'm scared i'll end up in some kind of hell where i abuse drugs to cope for 4 years.
i'm basically trying to gain self sufficiency and stability while i work on business ventures.
The only time it doesn't look like I rubbed a balloon on my hair is when it's really dirty, then it looks more like right for about 2 days before it looks gross, then I have to wash my hair and go back to left pic. So I thought about putting serum or coconut oil when I go out to flatten out my hair but it just looks oily and gross. Feels that way too. And if I try to use a straightener, it looks like witch hair.
Any advice on how to make my hair not look like a rat's nest all the time?
Every time I try learn something new by reading a book or something on the internet , my mind just wanders off into stupid fucking fantasy scenarios and its annoying trying to have force myself to snap out of it often
On rare occasions, I can get my mind into this "ultra-focus" mode, where I focus on a certain task to the extreme and forget about everything else in life for that single moment
How do I fix myself?
>pic unrelated
>dating apps
>meetup groups
>bars
>gym
is there anything else I'm missing?
dating scene feels really depressing right now
Should I stay with her even though it's a good chance of her being pregnant by another man? She doesn't want to get rid of it because that would be fair to her ex or the child, but she loves me and still wants us to get married eventually.
She told me this after a couple of months dating and I’m honestly a bit disgusted. I know people have a past but not like this many guys. It makes me feel a bit sick thinking I’ve been going down on her when so many guys have busted their loads there.
What should I do? I like her but yet at same time I’m repulsed.
Today I got a call from "company B" (kinda my dream company) saying they would like to schedule me for an interview tomorrow.
I would much prefer to work for "company B" and believe I will likely get an offer from them because I am overqualified.
How should I proceed?
So about two years ago I met a guy off tinder and we hung out regularly for a few weeks. We engaged in sex, and went out on dates to eat, go hiking, etc. As time went on, he did questionable things like not text me for a day or two, take long to respond to my messages (I mean 8-10 hours), and explicitly telling me that his phone is his business even though I never asked to look at his phone. After asking him what's going on, he basically told me that he was seeing someone else and that she was okay with him simultaneously seeing two women. I wasn't. So I cut him out.
Recently, this guy started texting me again and asking me to give him a second chance. Obviously, previously experience with me left me very tainted so I was skeptical as to what the fuck he wanted from me. Out of curiosity, I engaged him in conversation. He kept insisting that I come over and that if all goes well that he wants to make me his gf. I take anything he says with a grain of salt so to me, it sounds like all bark and no bite. We agreed to meet up at the mall (my request); however, he was extremely late. He kept talking about surface level things of no value like expensive fashion, his bike, etc. He also tried to make out with me, but I declined his advances.
What should I do next? I can cut him off, or fuck with him?
when I was in college last year my best friend from high school gave me this advice when I told him I was doing all the group projects on my own and letting my lab partners do nothing, he got mad and told me I should report them to the professor because they were taking advantage of me and my brain disability basically.
another example is that I have some counselors my mom makes me see for my disability and they always belittle my pain and heat intolerance etc. for example the counselor comes into my house when I have chest pain and started telling me I act like a child and i'm emo because I have chest pain. I was just ignoring him because talking aggravates my pain, so after he left.
I woke up at 3am and sent a very offensive message to his phone number and now I feel better.
I exercise everyday, try to eat correctly, jerk off only once for the past 2 months.
but i still feel pathetic and empty...
When will it get better?
>What can a girl do to be seen as more mature/of a potential romantic partner?
>Where does one find men who are looking for marriage?
>Would a guy want to have children as soon as possible, or would he think I'm weird?
>Should I wait til I'm older or get on it asap since I'm in my most fertile years?
>What's the youngest you think it's appropriate for someone to get married and have children? Am I too young?
>go out with group of friends from work for the 25th birthday of a girl, we all know each others for like 2 years now
>end up in a nightclub
>end up smoking with a female friend from the group for whom I have 0 feelings
>ask her about what she thinks about another girl from the group I have a crush on
>she answers me that she is 100% sure she only has friendly feelings for me
>apparently all the girls from the group discussed this and it's clear to them none of them like me more than a friend
>tells me I should look for other girls outside the group
just fuck my shit up man, I feel like shit
How do you deal with rejection?
I don't mind getting rejected by girls I barely know, but I don't understand how it's possible I'm in a group of female single friends, who seem to like me as a person and like doing stuff with me, and YET no fucking romantical feelings develop. It's kind of humiliating really, like I must be really fucking ugly or doing something really wrong.
At first I also didn't have any romantic feeling for these girls but after getting to know them I started liking them as more than friends?
I'm in good shape, but not super muscular (on purpose) because it would just look awful on a small frame like me, so I lean more towards ottermode.
How do I get over this? I just want to be a big jacked dude but I can't because I'm fucking short, and it fucks with my self-esteem.
I always want to break things. I will start fights with my girlfriend over little things that I could easily just chill out about. I always want to bash peoples faces in. Why am I so fucking angry?. How do I stop this? its ruining my life.
I’m a Svenanon and I’m usually on /pol/ and /int/, but I need your guy’s help.
I have very few friends and I can’t be with them that often.
I still live at my parents house and I will until I’m done with school.
I live a really uninteresting life in a town filled with selfish bigots.
What can I do with my days? I have 2 dogs and two forests near me.
All I own is my room and the things in it (computer, computer stuff, and 30 dollars.)
What can I do? I’m really into Vargs channel (thuleanperspective) and that kind of lifestyle, but I can’t do that now, but can I get started in some way?
Basically what can I do to live a more exciting life?
>dated over 12 girls in the span of 3.5 years (16-19)
>had blow jobs ,hand jobs, oral from multiple girls
>shoved the tip in a few times (doesn't count as sex
>didn't had full blown sex cause
>1) anxiety from buying condoms
>2) rushed things with said girl so she bolted
>3) didn't shot my shoot when I had the chance
Almost 20 gon have like 5 plastic surgeries to be a Chad, fuck my mistakes
>virgin porn addict with performance anxiety
>never been able to get hard for sex
>avoid relationships altogether to avoid disappointment/embarrassment
>even really high quality POV softcore porn gets me so nervous my heart starts thumping hard
Is there any way to fix this or am I just going to be a meek failure of a man for the rest of my life?
Or is pathological lieing deeply embedded in their DNA as a defense mechanism ?
Anedctotal experience welcome
I graduated with a degree in CS, haven't touched it since. Been working in kitchens and serving tables for several years now. I sleep all day until it's time to go to work and even though I work a 40 hr week I don't have much to show for it.
>I act like a burnout even though I can't afford drugs
>I have reasonably good spending habits but not enough income
>please help
This continued on for years. Of course, this person fucked people on the side bc, again, we were Not in a relationship and they have needs. They also have psychological problems including ptsd from being in the army for a decade. We met when he was discharged. The thing is, i was always hopeful. That maybe after another 10 more or so years when they come back we could finally go out for real and things would fall into place. But i grew weary and tired bc this whole situation was frustrating and depressing, i just wanted to be with them. i have offered to move, to stop my education for them (i know), or to switch schools, anything. i wanted to follow them to the ends of the earth. He said no to all that bc he wants me to finish my education more than anything.
Recently he told me he just recently got into a relationship with someone 2 hrs away. I congratulated him bc i was very happy for him, but i also felt crushed and heartbroken. I knew this would eventually happen, but it still hurt.
What do? I worry about being fired because of my bad social skills. My workplace is filled with basic bitch women who love to mention that social skills are the most important skill and how they love diversity, as long as diversity comes in a normie clones package.
Not only that but people here are destroying myself esteem. The stuff I read here lingers in my mind during the day.
Id like to become a video game journalist.how can i do this? How cam i become a true and honest content creator that can appeal without bad language or poor morals
We do this shit all the time. But she HATES surprises. How can I frame this delivery so that she'll see it coming but not the flowers+ligma part? She can't know about this plan
got fired from the gas station where i work
went there high and took a nap in the middle of the floor
how do i get my job back
the old uptight cuck bossman needs to relax
lifes too short
I am not sure what I can find that makes good money that I can excel at. Job coaches were stumped at this too. I am stuck living at home still, apartments near me being average 900 to 1k a month to rent, and me not wanting to buy a home and be stuck paying it off for the next 25 years like my parents did.
Any advice on what I should do?
Now I'm left wondering if this is really the right thing. I'll doubtless be put on some kind of medication and be diagnosed with something that will be damning to any employer. Should I go through with it?
Last week she messaged me on an SMS app (one i didn't know she had, otherwise I would have blocked her on it) and we sort of caught up. She said she regrets what she did (long story) and hasn't been with anyone else that made her feel the way I did, sexually or otherwise. She wants to fuck at least one last time, maybe a few times.
Let me just say, if there was one thing right with our relationship, it was the sex. It was almost like how we communicated, it's so completely on-point. She's definitely the best I've ever had, might be for a long time, so the offer is insanely tempting. However, I'm afraid doing it will bring back old emotions.
So far, I've done well with separating sex with feelings - been doing it for the last couple months with a rotation of girls, so maybe I can do the same with my ex. Has anyone else been in this situation? What did you decide to do? How did it go? Am I a complete idiot and thinking with my dick?
Has anybody experienced something like this before? Is there anything I can do about it?
She insists on finishing every little bit of food on her plate. I tell her it's okay. Stop eating when you're full. But she'll say she's full and then she'll keep eating until her plate is clean. This is why she's overweight.
Last week we had dinner together, and she wanted a full plate of rice, but instead we split a serving of rice, so what did she do? She added more food to her plate to make up for it.
I don't want to be the bad guy and tell her "no, stop eating. You've had enough." But it seems like that's the only thing I haven't done yet. If this keeps up I can't marry her because what's going to happen after we tie the knot? She wont show any restraint at all in her diet.
I know it won’t make me feel better I just genuinely do not care at this point anymore I have never had anyone truly care for me I thought this would be different
I take regular showers and use plenty of deodorant and body spray but it still gets really bad.
Is this something that I can fix this or atleast try to deal with it for the better?
Also is there anyone out there with this same problem?
I can't not longer see other males and see how they're low IQ, boring personalities, they're manlets, have balding shitty garbage lack of haircuts, make minimal wage, beerguts, 0 muscle, lack of any really interesting hobby or skill.
After trying to self improve for like half a year with just OMAD and basic push ups and pull ups, I think I look better.
I'm 5"7 but I live in a spic manlet shithole.
If everything goes with my plans, I could make 20k or more in the thirld world (a lot of money).
So, It seems to me, and I think this is why males call women entitled, but I feel the reason is why most males don't want to put the effort and they're losers.
Makes me feel good maybe next year or two years I'll be basically an alpha male.
Actually right now I feel ok with women cheating and cucking those inferior males.
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Keep questions concise. Use paragraphs.
If you can't handle upsetting replies (or the FAQ) don't ask. You will be bullied out of this thread if you act salty.
FAQ:
>What do girls/guys think about <any trait, such as looks, physical or personality traits, virginity, penis traits, or lack of dating experience>?
>Do <most/any> <girls/guys> like <an insecurity over the above>?
There is no one answer, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of <people/rejection>.
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it bit by bit. There is no "magic moment" (or activity) that will instantly change you.
>I like someone. What do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. "Signs" of attraction are useless.
>Where do I meet people for <dating/friendship>?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Just leave your comfort zone.
>Someone did <something insignificant>. What does it mean?
Nothing. You're overthinking it.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Coffee is the preferred first date, but any of the following may work: lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, froyo, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, gallery, park, <activity in your city>.
>I'm a virgin and insecure! Am I too old?
No.
>Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
You'll feel just as empty inside afterwards.
>Where do I find virgins of the opposite sex?
Fuck off.
>I'm insecure because of my <small/avg/big/cut/uncut/phimotic> penis
>Do women prefer penises of certain qualities?
>How do I <use/compensate for> my <as above> penis?
><any question/claim about penises>
Fuck off
>Why can't <women/men> just give a straightforward rejection?!
>Why do all <women/men> do <example of undesirable conduct>?!
Fuck off
><dating platform> is only for hookups, don't go there for real people!
Fuck off
><thread subject autism>
><anti-FAQ autism>
><Rules™ of texting autism>
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Make it yourself! Try these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2
What do I have to do?
I go to gym and I still have no gf
Her period is 4 days late already, she feels sick and tired all the time. What are the chances of pregnancy from protected sex?
>Born in shit developing country in a family of artfaggots (so not very rich)
>Family had high expectations for me, clearly expecting me to succeed and get us out of here
>Lots of pressure, suicidal depression ever since middle school
>A few bad years sabotage my diploma completely, literally no options to fix it or retake anything
>Likely won't ever go to a good university since the fuckers want good grades
Is it over? Do I finally neck myself? I don't want to, I'm scared and want to live but it seems like I'll be stuck for the rest of my life being berated and completely unable to get out. They keep blaming my depression on laziness and not the tremendous amounts of abuse and neglect they put me through and no matter how hard I try to fix it, just say fuck it and be productive and happy they always drag me back down. Depression is lame and pathetic, I know that much and I've really been trying my best but it's just not enough.
Is there an escape?
I want to be clear on this: I really feel something strong for her, maybe love, I don't know, and
She has never asked me, neither material nor economic.
But today he told me that he wanted me to go to his house and meet his mother (his father abandoned them as a child)
And I don't know what to do, I really love her, but I don't know how to explain the situation to her family (she mentioned that I'm older but not exactly how much)
Any advice is appreciated.
What am I supposed to do now?
I met her a while ago through a mutual friend and got to know her over a few months. We talked about lots of things in life and I fell in love quickly doing things with her all the time. We're both virgins and it seemed like a perfect situation
I finally got the courage to ask her out and when I did it, she told me she liked my best friend that I have barely seen interact with her. Him and I are also very similar in appearance and build.
They dated for a few months, I was very sad, but then she broke up with him. Right after she broke up with him she started talking to me like we used to, asked me to buy her a souvenir when I was away and hung out with me more. One night she told me "you know, me and your friend never had sex or anything, i'm still a virgin". I thought I made it, but just the other week I was going to make my move again and all of a sudden she's back with him out of no where
We had planned trips to go away places together and now she still wants to go but bringing him too.
Basically she treats me like her boyfriend when she doesn't have one and then throws me aside. I still am in love with her so I don't know what to do, even though I should probably just cut her off, I feel like I can't and I just want things to go back to how they were. Do I just give up on her for now and hope she changes or is it hopeless?
I like to give them old, empty gift cards
I'm considering a Bachelor's in Accounting with a minor in Marketing and then an MBA.
Does anyone know of any other solid in demand majors?
I enjoy science and business. I like computers but the field is oversaturated.
I need to decide on my Bachelor's, Masters and the university I want to attend by next month.
Any input would be great!
>One girl is insanely nice to me for some reason
>We become friends, you could basically seperate us from the entire class because we don't care about anyone else
>She keeps dropping tons of hints that she likes me, most of them aren't even subtle
>Ask her if she wants to spend some time together outside of college
>Ignored me but nothing changed, we still spend time together
>Suddenly another guy joins the class
>We become total bros, start spending less time with the girl because I feel like I'm nothing more to her than some stupid beta orbiter
>Now she's mad
What does this mean? Do women care that much about beta orbiters or did she actually like me? It's not like I said anything mean to her, I just don't want to spend time with a girl who calls me her bro and doesn't spend time with me outside of college ever. It's like I'm not even in the friendzone but just some kind of side character she hangs out with when she got no one else.
how doi do this when im not a pro fesssional?
i'm a handsome bum.
Today, she kept this bucket full of diarrhea (the bucket is pretty big, so I think at least 2 liters worth?) for over 12 hours, as the night before she took laxatives for a very bad stomachache and it looks like the only flatmate in the house right now has no intention of leaving.
To make things worse, I've read that this is a common behavior for bulimic people, and I'm worried things could get worse with time. What can I say or do to make her realize how bad this is for her?
Until present we've stayed in touch i had somebody else for a short period of time but it never felt special all i wanted was this girl.., finally after all this time we met in a different country she's studying here so i came mostly to see her and look for a job, she invited me here but it felt wierd, we had only some kissing and spend 2 nights together, she's having social anxiety and depression so i am trying to leave her some space, now i have about 1 week i moved from there but i am going crazy i want to be with her and i dont know how to do it i dont want to scare her..we talk almost every day but mostly through messages...cannot think about something else is also difficult to find a job. it fucks my brains.
I watched the guy before me get bullied out of his job as they called him "Dim" (instead of Tim) even to his face. He spoke to me once saying "I feel like I'm being set up to fail" and the other week those words really hit me.
He called up to quit his job and broke down crying over the phone, from what he spoke about sometimes he was going through some shit. Later in the morning my manager and his son were laughing about it "A 40 year old man! Crying!"
I don't get trained for half the shit I should know, and am afraid to use initiative because my partner in my department never fucking shuts up about how his way of doing things is the best way, constantly talks down to me and is incredibly rude.
My manager also lies to me constantly and his son thinks punching boxes to take them apart is masculine behaviour? He told me to do it and "show some masculinity" but I just laughed and told him I'm okay and not insecure. He also got weird with me when I told him his dad doesn't intimidate me (he asked). His son is about my age (22), he's too dense to catch satirical humour and just calls me weird, he only speaks in sarcasm that just isn't funny but I laugh along with it anyway.
On the other hand this is the best paying job I've ever had and I desperately need work right now as I might be going homeless soon. What the fuck do I do? I've had some shitty months and it feels like it's all getting on top of me, my girlfriend recently broke up with me and when I spoke to a friend about it he told me I should just kill myself.
So she could suffer alongside you so you wouldn't be alone, is it normal to want to cry but not able to do so over this specific idea?
It's kinda hard to navigate it as a folder.
Any help is appreciated
I already take very meticulous care of my body, btw.
Pic unrelated, it's my car.
Suggestions?
132lbs bmi literally shit(underweight(17.1)), can't gain weight no matter what I eat or how much I eat.
have surgery next week, so go get my blood tested.
results come in
fasting glucose 5.64mmol/l literally prediabetes
nobody in family has or had diabetes.
is my life fuckd?
I met her over discord with mutal friends, past two days we talked in the mourning and have a great time.
We talked laughed, had fun, but i want to be more flirty with her.
Never really dated, and not sure if i want to go for her, could ruin friendship, and make it awkward for my friend group
I don't know what to do. I legit want to be with her, but first i don't know if the feeling is mutual. I saw pics of her and honestly most beautiful girl ever.
The only reason I keep it is because it gives me this weird sense of control over what aspects of my life people see/ what they think of me. In reality, though, I know I can’t control that and it just wastes my time:/
>doesn't reply but I see her reblogging memes on tumblr later
>send msg to gf that I am in pain and injured, won't be able to make it to where she is at
>no reply again but see her reblogging memes
She sent me some shit about how she doesn't know what to say and that she feels bad that she doesn't care about my pain. Is my girlfriend autistic and should I just break up with this bitch man?
I don't want to pay for the service
Currently I am dating one for about 1 year, and the other I just met her 1 month ago.
I want to have a relationship with both and they live in different continents. I travel frequently so I am considering to have a serious thing with both, but how I told them that?
Or just have my relationship in secret, I can delete my fb and instagram to avoid problems.
Political science: I love politics, I love to debate, i'm a proficient writer and I would really like to get involved with local gov one day.
Philosophy: Philosophy would probably be the most fun degree but its kind of a dead end as far as i understand it, and for that its not high up on my list. I'm leaning towards a degree because I already have 2 years worth of classes and I don't want to just waste it.
Trades: So this is a special circumstance, my father is involved in trades and looking to jump start his own business soon. I would like to be part of this as being an entrepreneur is something I would really like to achieve in my lifetime.
Law Enforcement: this one is a bit more auxiliary compared to the rest, cause if I was to do LE I would want to be part of FBI, CIA, ICE, NSA, ATF etc. Yes i'm aware of the strict standards associated with each. The caveat with this is for most of the 3 letter agencies you need a bachelors, this is where the idea for philosophy came from, an easy degree I would enjoy then transition to LE, but I figured Pol Sci would be better as there's actually some decent jobs associated with it if I go that route.
Some more insight into my goals: I would like to be able to support a large family (6 or more children), the highest paying of the jobs is the trade with my dad assuming everything goes as planned, which there's no reason to think it wouldn't. I am 22 years old and would like to have my career or careers established by the time i'm 30, as well as a start on the family situation.
Writing it all out has already helped me immensely, but i'm still curious what others would do in my situation. Thanks.
Will it be fine with 150-180 minutes dry? It has to be today, I can't wait until tomorrow, I've been waiting to do this for weeks. Thanks.
Anyway, obviously I didn’t experience something like this before, and I’m nervous as fuck. How do I not bomb the interview?
She has sent me pics of her legs ffs
tried to kiss her today,all the signs were there,but she turned me away.She didn't say anything and we both pretended like it didn't happen.
Was it too soon? should I keep going?I have had this happen to me before,and I scored later on.
Also, any chance I would win?
>used to have a dad, but he's no longer around
>had a brother, but he shot himself years ago
>grandpa drank himself to death
>now it's just me, the only male left
>in a large family of nothing but women
>nothing. but. women.
>as far as the eye can see
>mom. sisters. cousins. nieces. aunts. grandma. other relatives I have no idea where they belong on the family tree. the whole shebang
>all, all women. nothing more.
>yet me, still a fucking incel that can't get along with the opposite sex
I don't understand...
and
>cannibalistic necrophelia
where would a fat fetish rank?
He used to pretend to be sick - or sicker than he really was - for sympathy and attention as a kid, and I thought he grew out of it but apparently he’s just reserved that for the girls he dates these days.
Save for a few genetically hinky things that I’ve got too, I know for a fact that there’s nothing fucking wrong with him, but by god can he play them up.
This once I was out with him and his girlfriend, it was autumn and the air was really dry, so my brother got a nosebleed, and when he headed back in to get a tissue to tidy up, his girlfriend told me - like a big confession - that he gets nosebleeds a lot, especially if he’s overwhelmed or anxious. She was dead serious and looked legit frightened about this.
I didn’t tell her it’s just about having veins too close to the nostril surface - apparently he can trigger them on purpose like dad could. He could’ve gotten the problem fixed like I have, but he’s chosen not to because it’s an easy dramatic way to freak people out.
He’s switched girlfriends since then but they all seem to have this same ”he doesn’t want to tell anyone how fragile his health really is” story that he apparently feeds to them like it’s his great, dark secret.
His great dark secret is being a lying little bitch.
But I know women and I know my brother, and if I tried to tell that to girls, they’d just get mad at me for being so cold and callous to their poor fragile broken sweetheart.
So, is there anything I can do, and if there is, should I even bother?
To the people who have dated between cultures, what was it like? I actually haven't even had a girlfriend before so a lot of this is really hard for me. I am 26 now and I figured maybe its time I actually attempt at having a love life maybe. I don't know. Any input or wisdom you have would help greatly.
All I have so far is my height
>complain about depression
>"you need to get therapy!"
>contact uni for therapy
>"sorry we have no room!"
>contact doctors for therapy
>"sorry we have no room! you'll have to go on a waiting list."
so what do i do now? just die?
About one week after we started having sex, I learned from her friends that she had been cucking her Japanese boyfriend with me. She admitted it when I confronted her. I immediately told her to chose between me and him, and so she claimed that she broke up with him. I thought that was the end of it, but I kept ignoring warning signs that she is still "dating" him remotely while she is with me. I kept ignoring them because I really liked her and trusted her.
This all culminated when I learned that her Japanese boyfriend was flying to the US to spend a week alone with her. I couldn't force myself to ignore things anymore, so I confronted her again. She admitted after some initial denial that she never actually broke up with him. Apparently, she "loves" both of us and she couldn't find it in her heart to break up with him.
For context, she is going back to Japan in 2 months, and we agreed from the getgo to end things when she returned. We both understood that our relationship wouldn't last. With that being said, she violated my trust and I feel miserable. She seems genuinely sorry that she hurt me, and she says that she loves me. I told her that I loved her too, and that's why I felt so miserable knowing that her heart wouldn't only be mine.
I couldn't bring myself to shout at her or break up with her. I feel trapped between my love for her, and the pain from her lies and betrayal. We've been through a lot together, including a pregnancy scare, and I feel like I'm too emotionally involved to let go.
What do
Is this pretty much true? If I keep searching, will I be able to find a replacement for what was lost?
She took it badly, sometimes texts me fully delusional as if we're fully together, other times things are worse and much darker, I don't reply even when she sends nudes or death threats but I'm genuinely worried she might kill herself
What can I do? I dont want to be with her anymore and I don't want her to be reliant on me to be happy, but she hasnt got anyone else and regardless of what she did I don't want her to die
Anyway, should I move out and cut him off? He disgusts me, but living with him would save me a few thousand dollars while going through college.
also sorry if this thread is duplicated, I made a thread before but with no answers rip.
When I see arrogant women/people, people who dont care about the world around them, are hedonistic, and basically are pretty and think the world revovle around them, those are the people i hate, and a lot of them happen to be women.
I'm a virgim, but I have had a couple girlfriends before. Does thinking this way make me a bad person? Two of my biggest role models are women because they are extremely intelligent and they value education over how many cocks they've have, how many parties they go to, who likes them and who doesn't etc.
I'm really really obsessed with her
I think about her constantly
And everytime I see her in my mind I get this overwhelming sense of anxiety and sadness
I think I'm losing my mind
Help
This has never happened to me before this many times. The first time having sex with each of the people i've cared about and dated long term usually ends with me being nervous -- I'll cop to performance anxiety, it's fine -- but after the second time, I'm in true form. This girl and I have tried three times and I just can't stay hard.
Before her, it had been a legit year and a half dry spell, so maybe that has to do with it. Maybe I'm not used to the tightness of the condom or her vagina or whatever. But for some reason each of these times has failed to consistently stay erect. I've pleased her plenty of times but I just can't get out of my head.
It could be I'm not used to the condom. Should I like, jack off with a condom on or some shit? It could be I'm not used to her vagina. Should I get lube?
I'm just looking for general advice here. She's told me I have the foreplay and oral stuff down, so I'm confident there. But I just can't seem to finish the job.
I've had my current job for the past six years and is somewhat professional, especially when compared against Hungry Jacks. Would they really want me to put down Hungry Jacks too? "Duties include cooking burgers, taking orders, washing dishes" seems a bit ill-fitting for a government job application.
So I travelled alone with 4 workers of the federation of my country.
I was the only one with credit card so I rented a car which payment was going to be divided in all of us. I payed $500 which turn into $530 because change of currency.
It was like $100 per person and 10 days later since We have landed in my country they dont pay me a shit.
Then I rent a hotel with them but I upgrade to another better hotel with another sportman and I left payd the other one for another member of the federation so he owes me $80 that I payed and he stayd in the room I left, but the asshole don't answer my calls or texts.
Then the goverment says they will give me back $700 that I paid for the plane ticket. And they now don't want to pay. For the fucking $700 I could get my ass in the first class and not travelling with those assholes in the last file.
Those idiots are old like 40s and dont want to pay me, I am 24. I dont know what to do, they are like you have money i give a shit.
Whats wrong with those people, who I can make them to pay me.
>stopped drawing bc depression
>deleted messages about that topic
Should I ask what where those messages the next time we meet? I only read the first one and it was depression related.
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