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>We've all been there I guess, heartbroken and all that.
Yeah, had it broken thrice.

>Thing is this time around I don't feel it healing and it's been 8 months already
That's because it won't heal, it's broken for good.

>I've talked to other girls, pretty ones and interesting too, they even showed signed they liked me and I felt... Absolutely nothing
Yes, that's normal.

>I feel like a robot sometimes, how do I heal this hole?
You don't. And if you could, you elect not to heal it. Let it stay broken.

>I feel like I'll end up being alone in life
Your feeling is lying to you.

>I just can't feel love or even passion for other people any more.
Good. That's called maturity.

You are going to find out that the things that you once called 'love' was not love at all. It was infatuation/limerence, the paper imitation of love. You will also find that what you call being 'heart broken' is actually the process of hardening of your heart — you grew and have become stronger.

The proof that you have is in your post.
>They liked me and I felt... Absolutely nothing.

That's called not falling for bullshit. It's called now knowing the infatuated highs on offer that you once believed to be signs of 'love' is not love at all. You know it to be just whims of immature women. The kind who will fuck you up emotionally if you try them. You know it ain't love.

What you will find out is love isn't just some feeling, and it doesn't happen suddenly at all. It's a choice, a commitment. And to get the real thing, it takes time to build with someone else. It's where you grow into love. 'Falling in love' is the fake imitation.

Reality is you've not even truly loved another woman yet. And the good news is it waits for you. And now you are closer to making it with a decent woman now that the chains of limerence are broken and out of your skull.

You are actually in a better position now more than ever.

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