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>I am in college
Okay, so while you have potential, your prospects are low. College is a time for flings and elevating your status. It's also full of really immature women who will fuck your life up if you get with them.
>coming out of a breakup for a 2-year relationship
You need rebounds, not ANOTHER relationship. See above.
>when I think of the effort needed to please a girl and be the best boyfriend for her, it all seems like a lot of work
That's because you're viewing relationships the wrong way, pointing to your inexperience. When attraction is high the meetings are effortless and you don't have to do crazy things to keep it all going. That's how it might have felt in your last relationship but you can't carry that into your next one, which again, shouldn't be until later. You've got a lot of work to do on yourself before you start reflecting on what women need. What do YOU need? Women are attracted to men who have direction in life, not men whose direction is to get another woman.
>Work on myself first or just start chasing college girls?
Both, but again, don't "chase" anything, that's desperation talking. Your meetings should be organic and you should allow authenticity to be the thing that attracts, not be another simp in a long line of simp trying to convince her to choose you. Read more, lift more, pick up a hobby, get out more. Stop fixating on your relationship status.

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