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both. you have to find the right woman - too much abandonment and she's probably going to be a turboslut when you meet her, too little and she wasn't abandoned enough for this to work at all. she also can't be especially clever. mine was prone to random meltdowns where she was convinced i was about to leave her, i think that helps. if you find a woman who does this or is clearly afraid of other women, here's what i did:
i wasn't getting anywhere near enough sex early in the relationship but i liked her and she had a lot of good qualities so i thought id work on it, but instead of talking to her about how important it was for me to stuff my hog in her, or being upfront about how a poor sex life would doom our relationship, what i did was gaslight her by gently flirting with women in public right in front of her who aren't family/friends of hers, with no family/friends as witnesses (wouldn't want everyone else to notice im fucking evil) and most importantly when said other woman is clearly attracted to me (women are fucking scandalous and definitely try to steal other women's men). typically she would extricate us from said flirty situation ASAP and fuck my brains out in this weird mateguarding strategy, and i'd round it off by heaping validation on her ONLY once im inside her, and for a day or two post coitus, withdrawing as needed, rinse and repeat. i haven't had to do this for years (we've been together for over a decade now)

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