>>32770762
i honestly don't know why im so bored because i generally did less before the relationship, but some differences are
>i work a normal 9-5 now, didn't do that before
>moved into a cheap apartment together, i preferred living in my parents nice big house for free
>we go through the motions every day, she's not a very exciting person but i don't blame her for that, I'm not either but i felt less bored single idk why

>>32770791
this might be true

>>32770792
you introduced me to those terms and can tell me more. I see solipsist implies im selfish, I can agree with that, but avoidant im having a harder time understanding.

That being said, there's no advice to help me be less selfish or avoidant? really?

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No there's nothing wrong with her she's fine, I…