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>is this a red flag bros?
Yes and yes. Two red flags in one.
>BDSM
Not rare, not common either. People into BDSM aren’t always insane or crazy, but you can bet your sweet ass they’ll see the relationship as a power dynamic and transactional. They enjoy BDSM because it recreates dysfunction in upbringing, dealing with either a smothering parent or a domineering parent. So high % chance they’ll recreate that out of the bedroom and will either smother or domineer you.

>Rape fetish
High % chance of crazy. Odds are she’s trying to normalise an actual rape she went through or witnessed, mentally disturbed, expect personality disorders. Also after breakup, don’t be surprised if you get a false rape accusation.

Remember OP, if someone is in the cycle of recreating trauma sexually, it means they’re still in the cycle. Step to close and you get sucked in.

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girl im talking to has a big BDSM and rape fetish is this a red flag bros?im the most vanilla guy out

girl im talking to has a big BDSM and rape fetish
is this a red flag bros?
im the most vanilla guy out