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>tinder
>dating apps

Cmon man. If you say you are ugly, did you at least suffer enough? If you have, you’d at least have solidified some of the suffering into wisdom. And wisdom should tell you that dating apps are garbage. They’re meant for hook-ups, sex, non-committal relationships. Even the girls who say they are looking for serious/long-term aren’t looking for it, they’re looking for validation. When the validation gets old, they go bye-bye and onto the next swipe.

Use your brain bro. I’m certain you can at least have a beautiful mind. So use that mind and think – you think you are ugly which may or may not be objectively true – okay, so look at the thing as a game of options. Girl on tinder? Infinite options she has. Dozens of dms weekly at worst, daily at best. She will choose the most attractive profile. Nothing against you, just human nature. The hot guy could be a nice dude, a shit one, who knows. What we know is most likely it’s a casual fuck and flee, both will go back to tinder as always.

So what do you do? Stop using tinder. If you can’t play it with charm, play it with smarts. Go somewhere where the girl does not have 1,000 bloated social media options. Find a girl who doesn’t use tinder and never has. A local girl, or a girl who keeps herself to herself even online. That way you become the only option, or one of just a few. And, even if she knows a couple one or two other guys, she’ll have energy to entertain you. That gives you time to get to know her, show some of your personality. That means you’ll bag the girl if you’re at least a kind person.

Don’t believe me? I just watched a woman I know have an option of 2 guys. Fat guy and an athletic guy. She picked the fat guy. Why? Athletic guy was a tryhard, faked his confidence, too desperate and tried to be a PuA. The fat guy was chill, authentic, not a tryhard.

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>called ugly all my life>have had 1 like on tinder for 9 months nowI dont even know why i open the app and swipe. This is extremely…

>called ugly all my life
>have had 1 like on tinder for 9 months now
I dont even know why i open the app and swipe. This is extremely…