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>Everything that interests me is online, and I have a hard time relating to normies. At a certain point I'm the outlier, and I should be into things more people can relate to.
Do you actually want to do those normie things? Or do you just want to fit in. If so, why do you want to fit in? What is the actual need that is unmet by liking your online nerd shit?
>It's not about "pussy." I'm a virgin and I'm content to remain so as I am a Christian.
using pussy was another way to say chasing validation from others, which is usually based in what women find attractive. if you're a christian who is remaining a virgin you should be going to church. church is literally the only way youll meet a woman who may share your moral sensibilities.
>i'm really not trying to sound retarded but this advice feels very vague. Am I supposed to just go up to random events happening in my area and participate as if I know what I'm doing?
it is vague because i dont know shit about you or what you may be interested in. and yes you just go participate. its not like participating in an activity is skill based unless you plan on going white water rafting or some shit. even then you can learn on your own, watch videos, or use it as a way to force yourself to ask someone for help.

activities could be as simple as, running, lifting, going to concerts, going to the bar, hiking, painting, drawing. it could be kayaking, climbing, martial arts, an instrument, skydiving, riding motorcycles. it could be thrifting, travel, even just fucking reading or collectiong vinyls or some shit. theres social clubs for all these things, both in person and online. even for your nerd shit theres probably a social club for it somewhere. i like magic the gathering, warhammer, and tabletop games. your local game store has open play nights, tournaments, and groups for this shit.

you dont need to give a fuck about what others think of you. you dont need anybodys approval or permission to do any of this shit.

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how are other people my age able to live much more exciting and authentic lives?