>>32544215
>Are blackpillers right and it's incredibly hard to get a woman unless you're very sociable
No, and it's a very terminally online point of view. You start getting out into the real world regularly and it starts to feels extremely alien immediately.

It's the kind of thing you're only saying if you have literally zero friends you regularly hang out with, you don't have any hobbies that get you out of the house and interacting with people, and you're not talking with the people around you in general. In any other environment, people saying weird blackpill shit like
>hurrrr I'm not squintmaxxing enough to maxx out my jawbonemaxxing for my knee surgery because of my heightism because stacy only wants a chadmaxxed alpha but alas I am a betabuxx watching betamaxx on my maxxipad eating marzipan hurrrrrrrr
Come off as the most out of touch people in the fucking UNIVERSE.

>>32544236
>They're correct if you are below average in appearance
Not even. Average men find average women and uggos find other uggos. Life, uh, finds a way.

>>32544291
>Go read books on it
It's not NOT worth doing because the books aren't that long, aren't that complicated, and a decent reader can finish them all in a week or two, but books only help people in circumstances where you're already interacting with women, you're just striking out with them and need a routine to make it work. You need to create the opportunity for any of the reading to matter. Most OPs, if we could magic one into existence, really just need the adult equivalent of a tiger mom to sign them up for a bunch of shit then ENDLESSLY nag them till they're actually going out two or three times a week to hang out with people every week for two years, because they don't have willpower or consistently and that's about how long it'd take to unfuck being social retards, buy them enough time to accidentally meet some women that wanna fuck 'em, then fuck them.

>>32545553
>Learned Helplessness, that is all.
this

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