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>she wants absolutely nothing to do with me

Yeah, you fucked up so bad that she has zero interest. She knows that you are unfit, she doesnt feel anything towards you and doesnt expect you to change, because she gave you chances before the break up (female chances, its subtle)

>and is still "healing" from an "extremely abusive" relationship and "violation of boundaries."

You are delusional. Someone has this opinion of you, and you brush it off like they choose to remember it badly? Thats what she feel. Thats how you made her feel whatever you did. Stop being crazy and see how people perceive you

>and that's the part that pisses me off
Victim mentality, female behaviour

>it was not an abusive relationship by any standard
Thats how you see it. You. Women dont lie, men just dont care to listen

>the melodramatic language angers me deeply
Its a woman

>she even accused me of doing things like "negging" her which I've never done in my life to anybody, and it isn't even my style.

You are not listening to her, one of the reason she left. Instead of asking why does this perfect girl that you loved feel like this, what does she mean, you turn into stubborn salty baby. Work on your communication skills and liw self esteem

>and we sank into a funk and stopped trying
You are the leader, you are the general who lost the war. There is no we, its a woman

>we almost never yelled
>almost
>we

You yell at women? You are emotionally unstable and weak willed. Feminine

>times on one hand when I ever insulted her
Yeah, you are abusive. You lack self control, women are disgusted by that. Makes them feel unsafe

>worst things ever got to were long texting arguments
So you hurt her, dont listen to her, insult her AND argue with her. Poor woman, she dated a child

>we had bad communication. we both fucked up
No, she fucked up only by ignoring red flags and falling in love with a guy who cant control himself, doesnt know how women work and cant control himself

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