>>31115500
>I will now drop my girlfriend
>my girlfriend
Don't you mean "our girfriend'?

For real tho, if you're the big man with the big plans and youve got the POWAH then what the fuck are you doing asking strangers advice on this dickhole of a site? Stop wasting time validating yourself, go bang your art hoes.

>because she is genuinely deeply in love with me
Hate to break it to you bud, if that was the case then she would have had a few yelling matches with you, cried her eyes out, calmed down, sat with you to talk about whether the relationship has a future and what issues need to be worked on and made a commitment to work with you on improving the relationship. Going out to get her PUSSY absolutely RAVAGED by some random fucknut - that only achieves one thing, which is to hurt you, to get back at you. Someone who loves you doesn't do that.

Also, you didn't mention how long it took for her to jump on this guy's dick. Sounds like she already had someone in the pipeline?

This is a waste of time. The fact that you have to make the whole thing seem not so bad by saying "they're already fighting and running into problems" is just......bruh.

>>31115500
>Congratulations on getting your partner to just turn over and accept that she was the problem after you were unfaithful
That in essence is exactly what happened. She put on weight and sex got boring. I told her a bunch of times to step up. She ignored it. I went and got a little side piece for a few months. She cried and cried. Then we sat down and talked. Fast forward a year later she's toned, works out more than I do, and fucks me like her life depends on it.

But yes, I'm aware I'm a manipulative uncaring asshole and this is not your situation. Best of luck to you.

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Cheated on my partner of 5 years for several months and then stopped and confessed to her. Completely retarded, no excuses, I fucked up.
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