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>Why?
You get use to being alone and when you aren't you realize how peaceful it is, when you are alone you have to become friends with yourself, and when you do a lot of that negative self-talk stops.
>Do you somehow suffer from this lifestyle?
No, not really, its peaceful. The one thing about solitude is that over time it becomes addictive and people you stop responding to, to pursue your own happiness and peacefulness will get you a lot hatred and seethe from once friends who consider you "selfish" because they can't get w/e socialization or w/e they are using you for out of you anymore. It made me realize that a lot of extroverted people aren't really your friends, they are just around to sap energy from you, they ignore your boundaries, and them wanting to hang out with you is ultimately self-serving. So when you turn around and start to serve your own interests, to them its like some great betrayal and they start all this drama bullshit, so I just cut them out of my life.

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