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Goal of the thread: Treat yourself to something nice, be it a meal, a hot bath, or something else you'd enjoy doing.
Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!
>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice
Generic advice won't necessarily help you in particular, but for those it does it is an essential foundation to build future progress on, not a miracle cure. Do not underestimate the effects subtle changes to your lifestyle can have. Try first, keep us posted on your progress, build from there.
We are *always* short on self help resources, so if anything was useful to you, let us know!
Since the OP is getting too long I moved all resources into their own post, see below!
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She's really into assimilation for trans women. She believes that trans women are biological males that transition to allievate their dysphoria (doesn't mean you should/can call trans women men, but to not forget the "trans" part). She basically fights homorably against everyone who makes trans women look bad (the hons, the non binaries, the they/thems). In her words, "in order to be a trans women, there must be some kind of transition". Trutrans, truscum mentality.
Perhaps we need more like her to defuse the culture war. On some days, I think, due to all the fetishists who dress up as women, that trans women are just fetishists too and they're not valid. But, thanks to Blaire, my hate my prejudices are erased and I can stop demonizing normal people who just want a better life.
You got people like f1nn5ter, BigIcky, Kiyanavi, Cloudy (estrogen angel), Kris Tyson and Emily (LTT) that completely destroys your reputation and your legitimacy. They're destroying your right to be.
That's why I think Blaire is doing you gals a great service despite all the lugenpress.
Links: https://pastebin.com/eTh4cwQ0
Vibes: https://youtu.be/faF0wOsVucw
Everything will be daijabou!
>QOTT: What AGP things do you plan to do this week?
>AGP questions and answers
>Thoughts and feelings / emotions
>Help, advice, guidance
>Be cozy and chill out
>What is AGP?
Autogynephilia, from Greek αὐτό- ("self"), γυνή ("woman") and φιλία ("love")
Broadly, arousal to the thought of being a woman. It can take many forms - being aroused at imagining or seeing yourself with a female body, dressing in clothes that make you appear feminine, acting in stereotypical "feminine" ways, or others.
>Isn't AGP just discredited pseudoscience?
No, you might be thinking of Blanchard's Typology, which includes the idea of AGP. Regardless of whether or not you agree with Blanchard's ideas, AGP is very real to the people who experience it.
>I'm AGP, does this mean I'm not trans?
No, you can be AGP and trans.
>Aren't you all just trannies in denial?
Some people with AGP will go on to transition, while others are content with incorporating it into their sex life or simply the occasional indulgence. It varies greatly in intensity. If AGP consumes a lot of your mental energy or causes you lots of distress, it is probably worth asking more questions.
Resources:
>Why Gender Matters, the Emerging Science of Sex Differences
https://ia802804.us.archive.org/30/items/LeonardSaxWhyGenderMatters/Leonard%20Sax%20-%20Why%20Gender%20Matters.pdf#page171
>The Gender Variant Phenomenon:
https://www.avitale.com/essays/a-developmental-review
Compilation of AGP books and studies: https://pastebin.com/dRQvi2K7 (embed)
Previous >>32872766
>she never answers back again after
im gonna kill myself
• Help, advice, guidance on meds and dosages
• HRT related medical experiences and research
• Availability and pricing of medications
• Rational and scientific discussion
See following post for a pharmacy list.
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Fuck kikes
![7b2821bd9cc1f4ff1262b3edb8af846443ab6c42[1]](https://i.4cdn.org/lgbt/1695596045721377s.jpg)
>MPB runs in dad's side of the family
>mother doesn’t have a good hairline either
>big chin runs in family
>flat chest genes from mother
>start HRT at 20 years old
Why do I even still try? Who am I trying to prove something to? Everyone hates me anyway.
Also it would seem discussing our conflicting beliefs is not acceptable.
>My trans friend "comes out" and give me new name/pronouns
>I say: No thanks, I don't want to participate
>They get defensive and demand explanation
>I try to explain the annoying burden I feel and my own personal beliefs.
> They react as if I've kicked their dog
>Get called transphobe/bigot + other seemingly random insults I didn't understand
I don't see a possible way to recover the friendship. I have no hatred or anger, It's mostly a sadness/pity feeling now. what do?
name your greatest victory over someone else /clg/
REMINDER: This gen is for cis homosexual females (lesbians). All trans-related or bisexual posts are considered off-topic and should be directed to other generals or threads.
(old) Discord: https://pastebin.com/P644WESi
(new) Discord: https://pastebin.com/mTELP963
previous >>32829725
They had the first LGBT player in the history of the country (Richarlyson - not the guy who plays for Tottenham, but a totally unrelated midfielder) and employed numerous players who just looked handsome, such as Diego Lugano and Kaká.
Congratulations, San Pablo!
This is non-negotiable, cis women make the rules
I'm virgin and 5'8. He's 5'10.
I never hugged or interacted close with men, I can't imagine what it's like. I feel very tall though and I'm nervous when we meet I will feel too tall. I know someone who is 5'10 from a distance and he doesn't feel taller than me at all although we didn't hug or cuddle, just a coworker.
Thoughts ???
>letters
>interests/hobbies
>looking for
>not looking for
>contact
>Inb4 cis lesbians
Most of them coincidentally act and look like men too (picrel.)
Here are my copes:
>never look at my genitals
>wear clothing that doesn't make my masculine form clear
>never use urinals
>shave often
>self harm
>IWNBAW
>being a woman isn't that good, women get raped, are physically weak, etc.
I remember wanting to go to female toilets when I was very very young.
Good days lol.
>QOTT2: what's your body count for each sex?
Previous Thread: >>32773016
Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2F
FAQ
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
No, but I think of you in the shower.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Just that our flag is prettier.
Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/
>weird
>late transitioner
>don't pass
>aap
>worthless NEET
I'm the poon equivalent to the rape hon
>receive a lot of support by our extended family but still i am the one who takes the role of the parent since im old enough to take care of myself and of them
>secretly trans (on hrt) and i really want to socially transition but afraid that having basically their father figure being a tranny would mentally mess up my siblings even further than everything we have gone through already
I know its a fucked up situation that probably nobody can give me any real advice but I just wanted to say how much it sucks
Picrel is asa cause I luv her <3
is not being attracted to trans men a form of violence?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ttg_vF4FgEs&ab_channel=BrianTerada
I guess you will answer something like "no, lmao. I'd have been trans even in the 50's". When both of us know that that is completely unlikely. You would be slightly effeminate at most.
if you’re wanting to transition but aren’t sure, do it
don’t end up being destroyed by puberty like me
i started when it was too late
don’t
>>32696232
Comics we know of, all of which are named Kaito Shuno
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/edit/u9WMp8xnWArb0-xZ7ljJAjaa/
Read-only link for sharing:
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/view/Mr+SCan-wtlJ2lJGQ4iKAXerD5iSgI3MseRF0hUoR24/present/
I don't care about the story as long as she draws porn
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/edit/StsXhwzarK-GGDG3P2GvlP6a/
Read-only link for sharing:
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/view/iiU2+aw-U3ZC2OX+PyCBUckUdxO+qw4thCGv2t5G5ro/present/
Feel free to recommend new webcomics not in the cryptpad, but don't be lazy, please include:
>Name of comic
>Link to it
>Short description
>Whether or not it's NSFW
>Days it updates.
If you're not sure if a comic belongs here because maybe it's not LGBT enough, post updates anyway. We won't know about it if no one posts it!
If you see something wrong in the cryptad, just edit it!
i will never be allowed to girlmode
why should i keep doing this shit??
>198 lb
>20 years old
>5 incher
> <20k a year
>own half a trailer
>4/10 face
>white
>autistic imageboard user
How fucked am I if i start dating troons. I am on the wrong side of hypergamy when it comes to cis females but is my smv high enough to secure a relationship with an atleast passing tranny and for it not to be a constant struggle to keep her affection
>instead I can only think about cocks 12 hours a day
Liars, all of you.
Do they think this is masculine behavior?
>just under 4 months HRT
>mostly transbian, but will make exceptions for femboys and some anime boys
>react with violent disgust at the sight of masculine men
>fastforward to last friday
>decide to visit professor
>there's some dude also waiting for the professor
>he's a little taller than me, twinkish face and looks but has visible chest hair poking through his shirt
>decide to strike up a conversation anyway because i'm bored
>dude has a deep, sexy voice that's totally at odds with the way he looks
>we chat for a while
>against all odds i start finding him weirdly cute
>wind up asking for his email
>walk away thinking about him in a romantic way
What the fuck is wrong with me? Did I just become HSTS?
This is part one
Part two in replies
Me: mtf gf (25)
Ex: ftm bf (20)
Me: middle passable still sexy tho. Big ass and hips.
Ex: passable, masculine and pretty tall for a ftm (but whore)
-
So i meet him 11m ago in my friends "coming out" party
He seemed smart and nice. Day after the party I told him we should hangout more. We become best friends for a while until i told him I have romantic feelings. He told me he feel the same way so we ended up in relationship.
During first 4 months of relationship he made me feel like a princess. I was constantly getting gifs from him etc. It was perfect.
Then he just changed his whole personality one day.
He told me we should go in gym together. Then I caught him checking out cis gym whores. That made me so dysphoric. After that we diced to move in together. He was moody all the time.
One time my friends organised a pizza night for entire friend group + some of his friends.
There was my overweight mtf friend. She was always talking about how fat people need more rights and how bodyshaming is harmful. I guess it gets on his nerves so he called her "pig" "whale" "fattie" whole night in front of everyone. He hit the nerve when he said:
Are you sure you are going to eat all of that? You don't look hungry at all".he and his friends laughed. We stay in silence.My friend left in tears. We never talked about that night. She unfriend me.
>Me Bi
>Used to be slutty eBoy
>Grew out of it
>Shaved head, hit gym, still a thicc boy but it's starting to look okay
>I still think about getting my ass ploughed like a furrow
Am I just a gay ass munch? What the fuck is even going to happen? Find out next time on BWCZ
I did sports in highschool, and I would have hated if any trans joined and easily swept through the competition.
Esports is a new low.
If you're depressed thats the way to go. Thank me later.
I COPE by not using my trained voice (and using my man name) BUT IM A HON and I can't ever pass even if I tried. 180cm. HOW EMBARRASSED SHOULD I BE?
What's it like?
Is it worth it?
Should I even do it?
>feels fantastic
>stay over at his place and the next day we do it again
>get back home and i’m alone so i let a fart out
>feel more than a fart come out
>rush to the restroom
>look down at my underwear as i’m taking them off
>absolutely full of his cum
i know it’s gross but i had to tell SOMEBODY like i thought my body would absorb it or something also how did he cum THAT MUCH like there is so much
Anyways the thing that sucks is even with the weight gain i didnt really gain any breast growth or hip fat gain which just makes me so frustrated. whats worse is that while my hip didnt grow i did gain stomach fat and my waist size is getting bigger making my whr get worse.
i swear 2 years and nothing in my transition is going right i feel like im gonna break down
Pic related. Would you? I wouldn't bottom for him, but I'd peg him.
Is that fucked up? I did an anonymous report to the police years later (didn't want to expose myself), but that's it really.
Okay, it does turn me on as well, can't say I don't enjoy it, but I think now that I transitioned I should be treated as a woman, with dignity. I believe in feminism, in being treated as equals. He makes me feel like an inferior.
How should I approach this situation?
Every trans boy upon taking T or changing pronouns etc should be evaluated by a team of experts, if they are found to be malebrained and have potential for passing, they are to have their transition subsidized and officially declared one of the guys.
If however they are found to be fembrained, unpassable, too pretty to troon out, they will still be allowed to transition, but it is henceforth declared that their consent to sexual activity does not matter and they are now freeuse tomboy cumdumps for all men who want them.
Most trender women, transitioning to escape male sexual attention, will desist right away. The few horny gaydens that don't will be used for the honorable purpose of decreasing mass shootings and male loneliness through being a stress relieving fucktoy for incels and ugly bastards. As such trans boys are chronically unemployed lefties their days will be spent doing nothing but being stuffed with cock in all their holes.
I see no downsides to my plan, it solves several issues in one fell swoop.
- Waist circ: 70cm
- Underbust circ: 78cm
- Hip circ: 98cm
- Shoulder circ: 101cm
- WHR: 0.71
Here are the measurements that do not:
- MFR: 0.88
- Height: 180cm
- Bideltoid: 43cm
I started at 25 and I’m at 1yr HRT. I’m tall, but how close am I to someone who started HRT much earlier? Can I be happy with this or should I rope due to the lost decade I’ll never get back?
>brainworms and self loathing cycle melts away
Thank you for saving me
>incel, virgin, and loser
>look down on cis women but respect trans women
>want to be a woman because i watch too much anime and want to be a cartoon
damn i'm actually fucking pathetic
Thats what you chasers fucking deserve for fetishizing us. You perverts will get whats coming!
And troons' girlcocks with the biggest girth.
Is there anything that's got worse
Than troons and poons from the 4chan-verse
Oh - Whooah, come on and shoot up with me...
[Peridot] Shoot?
[Steven] The syringe gives me my T...
[Peridot] T?
[Steven] And though it may burn,
And though it may burn,
It's worth it to be called he...
Chasers, hons, and poons' boypuss-
[Peridot] Chasers, hons, and poons' boypuss-
[Steven] Now you type me-mogs-me-me-mogs-me-o-ver!
[Both] The troons and poons from the 4chan-verse!
[Steven] Yes, yes! That's it!
[Peridot] I feel queasy.
[Steven] Yeah, talk to the hons about it.
You should post something, you should start a thread!
[Peridot] About what?
[Steven] Whatever you're thinking!
[Peridot] I think that the end is near,
I think we already know.
We've all got cissies to fear,
We all feel like we are faux.
I think we're all INSANE!
But we already knew...
Anybody would be
If they were to have GD too.
[Steven] Hahaha yes!
Chasers, hons, and poons' boypuss and-
[Amethyst] Chasers, hons, and poons' boypuss and-
[Pearl] Chasers, hons, and poons' boypuss and
Troons' girlcocks with the biggest girth.
[Garnet] Is there anything that's got worse?
[Steven] Is there anything that's got worse?
[Peridot] Is there anything that's got worse
Than troons and poons from the 4chan-verse...
why did i have to be tranny
>start listening to the new vegas radio while crying
Is this fembrained sisters
I mainly mean physically. I get that looking like a bridge troll is it's own potential problem.
Short cis men and tall cis women do exist, after all.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3_4Hwe4qB4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rbXdlN_l0o&ab_channel=VigilantCam
>life improves tenfold, confidence slowly returning
>i feel happier and less anxious about everything
>actually feel vague hope for the future now
>i lurk sometimes but the impetus to stay is completely gone
if i can do it you can do it too anon
>know being so is literally impossible
>know trooning out sucks and even if i'll pass i'll still be a mockery of real women
>know that relationships with my family and friends might fall apart if i become a tranny
>know being on hrt would feed pharmaceutical companies for the rest of my life
>know i'll probably hate myself as much or more after trooning out
>repress "healthily"
am i doomed to rep until i ACK! myself or die as a miserable piece of shit?
They say things like “New York City is dirty and dangerous” (it hasn’t been that way since the 90s) and “Nothing sounds less appealing then being surrounded by yuppie cocaine addicted trannies” (New York City has every type of trans person you could possibly imagine. Those people exist but you can find way more “normal” trans girls in New York then anywhere else). They also say shit like “well I like being around nature” as if New York Cities parks and botanical gardens doesn’t make it a better place for experiencing nature then the midwestern shitholes you fuckers live in.
I can only imagine it’s burning envy that I live in the single best place to be on planet Earth you’re a trans person while you’re stuck in nowheresville Tennessee. Seeth harder bitches.
>I’m a catboy
>I’m a puppy girl
>it’s not the same as a fursona
Yes it is
I think I'm gonna buy shoes like picrel has, they have a cool look and feel a bit more niche than adidas sambas while still hopping on the trend
my bottom ribs are perfectly fine but my ribcage expands rapidly. is there anything that can be done to fix this? i know i have wide shoulders but i dont think it would be as much of an issue if my ribcage was narrower
>me twinkhon, she a passoid
>she makes me strip and wear a collar with a bell so I can pretend I'm a cat for her
I'm not feminine enough to fulfil her fetishes, how can I tell her?
Should I just bite the bullet and say I'm non binary to abuse the affirmative action policies of large companies?
I'm an estrogenized male, and look kinda andro, I could pull it off, but what would they expect from me?