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Franklin Method. Ask her to do something for you. It can be minor and not even involve seeing you. "Could you please drop by and feed my dog on Friday? I don't have anyone else I can trust."

This does 3 very subtle things
>Shows your respect (I trust you)
>Puts them in a position of power (could reject you), stroking ego
>Creates sunk cost (subconscious justification, I must like this guy if I'm considering doing him a favor)
This is a low risk strategy. If she says no, you still win because that builds some guilt. Like how salesmen will start with an outrageous offer and ask you to "compromise" after you say no because people like to balance no and yes subconsciously. (Door in the face method)

None of this advice will make her immediately love you again but it will create a small positive foundation to rebuild. It is a start.

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How would you rebuild trust with someone who wants nothing to do with you anymore? Note that really sleezy strategies are acceptable