>be me
>be in long term relationship
>split up at the beginning of the year
>get back in touch with high school friend (female)
>start hanging out a lot
>reached out to her strictly as a friend b/c I needed to increase my social output to distract from the breakup
>plus she has a boyfriend so no worries about catching feelings right?
>haha...
>over the last few months been texting with her quite a bit
>whenever we hang out IRL we find ourselves just talking about whatever well into the night
>very, very easy to lose time with her and we both have commented multiple times stuff like "omg how is it this late already"
>I feel at ease immediately around her
>I feel *alive* around her
>oh my god oh no
>realization that I'm falling for her hits me like a ton of bricks
>want to block her because I don't want to be *that guy* or cause a wedge in her own relationships or anything
>consult my friends
>all of them say I need to tell her how I feel
>they also note that it's odd that I have not met her boyfriend yet
>she has told me that he's socially weird, so I hadn't given it much thought
>but my friends keep making a note of this especially as ~95% of the time I've spent IRL with this girl it's just been us two
>don't want to lose friendship because I value that, and her, to a very high degree
Well anons, I sure am in a pickle.
She's honestly amazing but I really don't know what to do.

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